Choosing Yourself is an Act of Love for All
Many of us were taught in childhood that the only way to be a good person is to give to others and that choosing ourselves was selfish and unkind and certainly not a loving way to be with others. These ideas come from a variety of cultural, religious and family traditions. During a transitional time in my life learning to prioritize following my own wishes, goals and dreams, I wrote this inspired and chanelled message.
Choosing yourself will never be to the detriment of others. When you are overgiving, draining yourself of life force, taking in negativity, etc you are not operating from a place of love but of lack of it. This creates a frequency of dependence, negativity and fear which is never in the best interest of the other. When one is projecting out their fears while the other is giving to relive their own fear and insecurities it is not coming from a place of love. The spiral is to continue to lower the frequencies of each person. Each person begins to lose a little more and then a little more of their true self and sense of self worth.
While the two roles look very different in essence they are both experiencing the same degradation of self. To continue to deny self love and worth. Like two birds in the sky engaged in the fight, they lose altitude. If they don’t disengage they get closer and closer to the ground and finally if they don't let go they will both crash and be injured or die. So too with the soul. You are given many chances to take care of yourself and many opportunities to choose yourself and love yourself. If you do not, then the lessons will become more and more intense until you may be faced with serious health, financial or other issues to really get your attention.
The Soul is always wanting you to learn and to reconnect with your highest purpose. Some of you need to go to the extreme especially those with such little self worth that you don’t believe you are worth it. Imagine thinking your life is not worth living and taking care of yourself! So senseless and not the reason you are here. The earth plane is a magnificent learning ground for this particular lesson. Those with inflated egos are experiencing the same. They cannot stop because they can not get enough recognition or praise to ease their internal suffering of not feeling worthy of love. Image, being praised by so many and yet feeling completely empty inside.
When you are taking care of yourself and living in your highest purpose, you will be helping those around you to do the same. Generating higher energy and frequencies elevates others around you to live in their highest purpose.
Some ideas to consider the next time you are feeling guilty in taking some time out for yourself or pursing something you love doing. When you take care of yourself and following your own dreams and wishes, you will elevate all those around you.
Be Well